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#1 Post by Upset »

Regular going anon.

This is an odd one. I'm friends with "Jane" for a while now. She's a nice girl and has been good to me in the past. Especially this year as my eldest son was very ill and she and the rest of the "circle of mates" have been very good to me and my family.

Jane is very close to another girl who is basically very toxic. She has caused upset to many of my friends, insulting them about various issues, their weight, their children, etc.....she insulted me one evening about my son and I told her to "f**k off :rolleyes: and mercifully, I haven't seen much of her since.

Jane is still very close to her. I know this shouldn't bother me but it does. Jane contacted me last week and said she feels I'm very cool with her. I apologised but said I cannot understand how she can be friends with this other girl. She acknowledges that yer one can be "difficult " but they are neighbors and Jane has seen the other side to her too.

I know I'm being unreasonable but really want to get past this.

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