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#331 Post by Milis »

Hope you are having a relaxed morning. You deserve it.
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#332 Post by Dexter »

Brilliant update :biggrin: so happy you made that decision
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Viola wrote:Well I’m just so proud of my kids, they went into school smiling, well ds almost smiling. Stomach pains have disappeared and for the first time in 13 weeks he said he was excited about going to school. I just feel enormous relief right now, I can actually breath.
I'm so happy to read this. You're a magnificent warrior for your son.
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#334 Post by apache »

Fabulous news, Viola.
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Wonderful news !!Well Done ,Delighted for them and you !
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#336 Post by Posher »

Great update Viola. Now here's hoping they adjust well.
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#337 Post by glittermama »

Brilliant update x
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#338 Post by Penny »

Great update.
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#339 Post by Bippityboppityboo »

let us know how his day went!
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#340 Post by HeyJude »

Great update Viola. The fact that the school didn't share the information with the other teachers proves to me you made the right decision to remove your children. It would be standard practice that all teachers are made aware of any bullying situation (and usually parents are made aware of this fact). The principal sounds like what I call old school where he prefers to ignore situations and loose pupils rather than go to the bother of dealing with them. You can look forward to them coming home this afternoon knowing you have done the right thing.
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#341 Post by Groucho »

What a great update. He’ll be like a new man!
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#342 Post by Swoon »

How did they get on Viola?
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#343 Post by Viola »

Sorry didn’t get to update, ended up in A&E with my 2 yr old, came home with a cast almost the length of her leg.
Anyway, kids got on brilliant, absolutely brilliant. Ds said it felt like being at home he was that comfortable there. Dd said her class were all so lovely and welcoming.
Ds had a breakthrough in play therapy tonight too, his therapist was that happy she text me afterwards to tell me he is such a brave and strong boy, I’m bursting with pride.
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#344 Post by Millie »

You are a great mother Viola. All of this has been so difficult for you (and your son of course). It is so hard to stand up to "the System" when people are telling you that everything is fine. You know your child best. I firmly believe that if you trust your gut, your basic instinct, you won't go wrong. Really so happy for you all.
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#345 Post by StarryNight »

What a great update. I'm so pleased for you all.
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