I don’t think anyone uses housewife any more, it implies that you are looking after the house for your husband.
I don’t think anyone at home looking after kids could be described as unemployed.
I don’t have an answer that would be acceptable to everyone though. I’d say at home with the kids too.
Cause of death?
Re: Cause of death?
I think full time mum is fine tbh, you can’t keep everyone happy so if someone wants to be offended so be it.
Re: Cause of death?
My birthcert had father unknown for yrs because they were unmarried & despite my father been very much known in 1979 to a 17 year old unmarried child, he was deemed unknown. My mother had to fight to have my surname as his surname recorded and not her own.