What now?

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What now?

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DH and I have been together since we were in school, have 3 kids aged between 13 and 20. We haven't been great together for around 2 years now, to the outside world we are the perfect couple and perfect family but in reality we haven't had sex more than twice in last year and argue all the time. We have fallen into a pattern of arguing , ignoring each other and then moving on so nothing ever gets resolved. Tonight in an argument he told me he hated me.. I don't think I can forget that , I'm not even sure what a normal relationship looks like anymore !
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Re: What now?

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Oh God sweetheart that is a really lonely place to be. You need support. You have some decisions to make. You can't live like that -neither of you - so there has to be change of some kind. Is counselling an option?
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Would you try counseling? If you can get a good family counselor it could help you tease out issues and see if you want to try to fix it together or not
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