Kicking starting sex life

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#16 Post by Julietta »

Get lubricant too!
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Start with a good old snog and see where it takes you.
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#18 Post by Groucho »

Hop into bed together in the nip and just go for it. Don’t over-plan. No date nights or candles or all that. As Deise said, Just Do It.
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#19 Post by Grasscutter »

I'm all for just do it except I think the woman deserves to enjoy the experience if she wants to repeat it. On that basis a fair bit of foreplay and seduction might help.
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#20 Post by Apple »

I also think the more you do it the more you want it. It might take a few goes to get back into the swing of it.
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#21 Post by Guest 18 »

Thanks all. Alas, nothing yet!!!

It has been mental, work, kids, etc.....I am shattered (nothing new!).

Think I'll go along the lines of just doing it!! I have lost interest in my DH physically too, which doesn't help :/

Jesus, when did things become so difficult????? :sneaky:
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#22 Post by Grasscutter »

Apple wrote:I also think the more you do it the more you want it.
But isn't that only true if it's good sex? A quickie under the 'just do it' order probably wouldn't fall under the good sex category for me.
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Grasscutter wrote:
Apple wrote:I also think the more you do it the more you want it.
But isn't that only true if it's good sex? A quickie under the 'just do it' order probably wouldn't fall under the good sex category for me.
Who mentioned what type of sex it was?

Anyway sometimes you get out of it what you put in.
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#24 Post by Deise »

Grasscutter wrote:But isn't that only true if it's good sex? A quickie under the 'just do it' order probably wouldn't fall under the good sex category for me.
No, but it might mute the nerves and you'd be more inclined to go for it again in a more relaxed fashion.
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