by CLBG » Mon Sep 24, 2018 5:41 pm
Well done for putting this out there and admitting it to yourself. I've read your post a few times and some questions have come to mind:
What do you think has made you realise this about yourself? Was hearing about his co-worker the wake-up call for you?
I would imagine that this pattern of behaviour didn't come out of thin air for you - it possibly has roots in your past. Would you look at counselling to help you with this? If you don't tackle the roots of the issue, it is possible that you might slip into old patterns of behaviour again. Your dh should also get counselling, either for himself or as part of couples counselling.
What does your dh want to see from you in a few weeks? I'd imagine it'll take longer than that to address the issue?
You might at a later stage want to look at family counselling. If things are as bad as your post suggests, your kids may have witnessed behaviour that could also create patterns in their lives if not addressed. Sorry, don't mean to add any more pressure.
Best of luck.
Well done for putting this out there and admitting it to yourself. I've read your post a few times and some questions have come to mind:
What do you think has made you realise this about yourself? Was hearing about his co-worker the wake-up call for you?
I would imagine that this pattern of behaviour didn't come out of thin air for you - it possibly has roots in your past. Would you look at counselling to help you with this? If you don't tackle the roots of the issue, it is possible that you might slip into old patterns of behaviour again. Your dh should also get counselling, either for himself or as part of couples counselling.
What does your dh want to see from you in a few weeks? I'd imagine it'll take longer than that to address the issue?
You might at a later stage want to look at family counselling. If things are as bad as your post suggests, your kids may have witnessed behaviour that could also create patterns in their lives if not addressed. Sorry, don't mean to add any more pressure.
Best of luck.