by Marriageover » Tue Mar 20, 2018 11:02 pm
Regular going anon.
We have been married 17 years. 3 children, 2 of which are teenagers. Our marriage has been dead for at least 5 years. I am now at the stage where I cannot live under the same roof as him. He has become quite abusive recently, not physical but verbally. He said if I want to leave, leave but he isn't going nowhere.
House in both our names and we do not have negative equity. However, I only work part time. His salary is only €40,000 per annum so I don't and wouldn't expect support from him. He is adamantly he wouldn't anyway,
I feel with the verbal abuse, he is trying to push me out. I suffer from depression but am maintaining it well but he brings it up and if I get upset, he claims I'm hearing things, etc...I feel this is all trying to push me out of the home.
He refuses to go to mediation.
I feel trapped. I will work full time but I know I can't afford to just leave and start afresh.
What do I do if he won't agree to separate ??
Thanks girls,
Regular going anon.
We have been married 17 years. 3 children, 2 of which are teenagers. Our marriage has been dead for at least 5 years. I am now at the stage where I cannot live under the same roof as him. He has become quite abusive recently, not physical but verbally. He said if I want to leave, leave but he isn't going nowhere.
House in both our names and we do not have negative equity. However, I only work part time. His salary is only €40,000 per annum so I don't and wouldn't expect support from him. He is adamantly he wouldn't anyway,
I feel with the verbal abuse, he is trying to push me out. I suffer from depression but am maintaining it well but he brings it up and if I get upset, he claims I'm hearing things, etc...I feel this is all trying to push me out of the home.
He refuses to go to mediation.
I feel trapped. I will work full time but I know I can't afford to just leave and start afresh.
What do I do if he won't agree to separate ??
Thanks girls,