by JoJo » Thu Feb 15, 2018 9:52 am
Definitely call women's aid, they can give advice and support. It would be a deal breaker for me too. Having 'been there, done that' I don't believe it would be a once off, for want of a better way to explain, the mould is broken. I went out with a guy, lived together, was besotted with him. In my case it started with emotional abuse and then one day he slapped me across the face and it escalated from there. I know from the outside looking in I would have said, once and it was over, but you do want to believe he can change, things will be great again, love is blind etc ... but ... they don't change. Please think of yourself. I cannot believe he is saying he does not remember and has not even apologized, that is disgusting.
Mind yourself, ask for help, advice etc. x
Definitely call women's aid, they can give advice and support. It would be a deal breaker for me too. Having 'been there, done that' I don't believe it would be a once off, for want of a better way to explain, the mould is broken. I went out with a guy, lived together, was besotted with him. In my case it started with emotional abuse and then one day he slapped me across the face and it escalated from there. I know from the outside looking in I would have said, once and it was over, but you do want to believe he can change, things will be great again, love is blind etc ... but ... they don't change. Please think of yourself. I cannot believe he is saying he does not remember and has not even apologized, that is disgusting.
Mind yourself, ask for help, advice etc. x