Not happy with grinds, need advice.

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Re: Not happy with grinds, need advice.

by April » Mon Oct 23, 2017 12:37 pm

Nelope wrote:No I am working that day and ds is back home at 1.30 and I'm not back until 3, teacher wanted to come at 1.30 as it suited him better.

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Just phone him and say that the times aren’t going to work and you’re going to leave the grinds doe now.

Re: Not happy with grinds, need advice.

by Nelope » Mon Oct 23, 2017 11:29 am

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Re: Not happy with grinds, need advice.

by Thinkivebeenhacked » Mon Oct 23, 2017 11:25 am

He wanted you out of your own house while he was giving the grind?

Extremely odd and worrying.

Re: Not happy with grinds, need advice.

by NDM » Mon Oct 23, 2017 11:02 am

Call this person.
A text is no use as you'll go round in circles plus the tone and content can be mis interpreted. Be as honest as you can as then you have nothing to hide incase you ever come accross this person in the future.

Tell this person you don't want to continue with the grind for the moment as the logistics don't work for your family and you are re thinking your position on extra tuition.

You'll feel much better afterwards and can hold you head high as you've told the truth of the position you find yourself in plus there is no come back from this person as you've said it as it is.

Re: Not happy with grinds, need advice.

by Attempting the dream » Mon Oct 23, 2017 11:00 am

Nelope wrote:, he wants to come when I'm not there which I agreed to but was on the spot and thinking about it now I would prefer to be in the house,

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That would strike me as odd.

Hopefully he got the hint.

They're expensive enough so make sure your happy with who you get.

Re: Not happy with grinds, need advice.

by Come Wine With Me » Mon Oct 23, 2017 10:57 am

Nelope wrote:Ok bit the bullet just sent a text to say hi xxxxx I'm going to have to cancel grinds as the time really doesn't. Thank you. Xxxx hope thats ok not too harsh?

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Don't lie about the time. If he's as pushy as you say he'll defo start angling for another time.

Just bite the bullet and say you aren't going to continue. He's mediocre and a rip off, you don't owe him any explanation.

Re: Not happy with grinds, need advice.

by Nelope » Mon Oct 23, 2017 10:48 am

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Re: Not happy with grinds, need advice.

by Nelope » Mon Oct 23, 2017 10:45 am

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Re: Not happy with grinds, need advice.

by cazzy16 » Mon Oct 23, 2017 10:41 am

Thats perfect - what if he offers an alternative time?

Re: Not happy with grinds, need advice.

by Nelope » Mon Oct 23, 2017 10:40 am

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Re: Not happy with grinds, need advice.

by Overthere » Mon Oct 23, 2017 10:35 am

Exactly. Don't burn bridges and just say you have decided to let your DS work on his own for a while.

Re: Not happy with grinds, need advice.

by RedHen » Mon Oct 23, 2017 10:34 am

No point paying for a service you aren't happy with. I'd just lie and say you're going to see how your DS manages on his own for a while, but if you need him again you'll be in touch.

Re: Not happy with grinds, need advice.

by DiscoGirl » Mon Oct 23, 2017 10:33 am

Hi John , just a call / text to let you know Tom won't be getting anymore grinds ,thanks Nelope

Re: Not happy with grinds, need advice.

by cazzy16 » Mon Oct 23, 2017 10:32 am

Just say Hi thanks for the grind last week, but we arent going to continue with them ,

I would send a text - I hate phonecalls

Re: Not happy with grinds, need advice.

by Nelope » Mon Oct 23, 2017 10:26 am

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