by Nay-brrr » Fri Dec 16, 2022 8:59 am
Moving isn't an option unfortunately. Both properties have been in the families for a few generations.
Painful and all as the neighbours are, ignoring them has worked up to this point. DH was referred to as a "blow in" yesterday! Facing them down is pointless with these idiots. You are just sinking to their level.
DH gets this when we chat about it but in the heat of the moment, he needs to be able to not react. He is just playing into their hands.
I am looking into CCTV today. I hate that they are dictating parts of our life. I hate them, full stop.
Moving isn't an option unfortunately. Both properties have been in the families for a few generations.
Painful and all as the neighbours are, ignoring them has worked up to this point. DH was referred to as a "blow in" yesterday! Facing them down is pointless with these idiots. You are just sinking to their level.
DH gets this when we chat about it but in the heat of the moment, he needs to be able to not react. He is just playing into their hands.
I am looking into CCTV today. I hate that they are dictating parts of our life. I hate them, full stop.