by notonthefence » Tue May 31, 2022 6:55 am
OP That must be very hurtful.
When you contacted the one member, who denied a problem existed, when obviously there is one, I suspect that attempts to clear the air will go nowhere.
They have behaved badly, but rather than acknowledge it, they have deflected the blame onto you.
Do you really want to be friends with people like that?
Out of curiosity, is the original recipient of the WhatsApp message still involved with them? Did they apologise to her?
It hurts because you have done nothing wrong, and the others must know that. But there are a lot of toxic people out there
Be the bigger person.
Smile, say hello but I would keep my distance from people like that.
OP That must be very hurtful.
When you contacted the one member, who denied a problem existed, when obviously there is one, I suspect that attempts to clear the air will go nowhere.
They have behaved badly, but rather than acknowledge it, they have deflected the blame onto you.
Do you really want to be friends with people like that?
Out of curiosity, is the original recipient of the WhatsApp message still involved with them? Did they apologise to her?
It hurts because you have done nothing wrong, and the others must know that. But there are a lot of toxic people out there
Be the bigger person.
Smile, say hello but I would keep my distance from people like that.