by CocoRose » Tue Oct 26, 2021 10:50 am
It sounds to me like the birthday girl would want you there and the person organising has made an oversight she may not be aware of. The birthday girl might actually feel quite bad on the night looking around and asking where is x? So it might be important for you to flag with the organiser that you've been to all her previous big bdays and you'd like to join.
It sounds like you are most disappointed your sister can't acknowledge this hurt, logistically it is not her problem obviously but it sounds like you expected more from her.
I will say though that the fact you are down might be making this into something much bigger than it is, shaking you to your core etc. As someone above said, try look at this whole situation as a bit of a fk up that no one really realises they've made, and that the intentions are not to hurt you to your core at all x
It sounds to me like the birthday girl would want you there and the person organising has made an oversight she may not be aware of. The birthday girl might actually feel quite bad on the night looking around and asking where is x? So it might be important for you to flag with the organiser that you've been to all her previous big bdays and you'd like to join.
It sounds like you are most disappointed your sister can't acknowledge this hurt, logistically it is not her problem obviously but it sounds like you expected more from her.
I will say though that the fact you are down might be making this into something much bigger than it is, shaking you to your core etc. As someone above said, try look at this whole situation as a bit of a fk up that no one really realises they've made, and that the intentions are not to hurt you to your core at all x