by Cutiepie » Tue Jan 05, 2021 9:24 pm
Poster, I can only talk about being widowed because of suicide. We have no clear reason why dh took his own life. Looking back and only having it pointed out to me, there were small changes in him. I can't say he ever showed signs of depression. But he never talked. Sometimes you could tell that something was bothering him, small things yet he still didn't talk. Even if we had know what was to come, I don't think he'd have spoken to anyone. He was very much old school. I don't know what can help your husband. Personally, I wish mine could see the devastation his suicide left. Our children will be forever without him. They loved him and he loved them. I don't think he could see another way. I don't know why he couldnt have spoken to someone. Is it a man thing, I don't know. Personally, I found attending Pieta house kept me going. You can vent, let go, no-one will judge. Thinking of you both.
Poster, I can only talk about being widowed because of suicide. We have no clear reason why dh took his own life. Looking back and only having it pointed out to me, there were small changes in him. I can't say he ever showed signs of depression. But he never talked. Sometimes you could tell that something was bothering him, small things yet he still didn't talk. Even if we had know what was to come, I don't think he'd have spoken to anyone. He was very much old school. I don't know what can help your husband. Personally, I wish mine could see the devastation his suicide left. Our children will be forever without him. They loved him and he loved them. I don't think he could see another way. I don't know why he couldnt have spoken to someone. Is it a man thing, I don't know. Personally, I found attending Pieta house kept me going. You can vent, let go, no-one will judge. Thinking of you both.